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The Internet, Your Student, and You

Practical guidance for parents on helping students use the internet safely — and on being a good model for it yourselves.

A teen using a laptop at home

The internet is no longer optional in education. Research, assignments, classroom platforms, communication with teachers — all online. The same network that makes all that possible is also where every kind of distraction, scam, and bad actor lives. The parent’s job is to help your student build the judgment to navigate both halves.

Match the supervision to the age

There’s no single right answer for “how much can my kid be online?” — the answer changes every couple of years. Younger elementary students do best with close supervision and time limits. Middle schoolers need more autonomy with structure. By high school, the goal is independent judgment, not surveillance. The earlier you build the habits, the easier the later years are.

Keep talking

Show genuine interest in what your student does online — the games they play, the videos they share, the people they talk to. When you’re a curious adult instead of an inspecting one, your student is far more likely to come to you when they encounter something weird, scary, or sketchy.

The internet is forever

A useful sentence to repeat in your house: the internet is forever. Posts, photos, comments, group chat screenshots — they all have a way of resurfacing years later. College admissions officers and future employers look at social media as a matter of course. Help your student think about the digital footprint they’re building before they post.

Teach source evaluation

Not everything online is true. Build the habit of treating internet research as a starting point: cross-check facts in the school library, in published sources, with experts. Help your student learn to spot the markers of a sketchy source — no author, no date, no citations, sensationalist language.

Watch for scams

Phishing emails, fake giveaways, requests for personal information from people they don’t know — if it sounds too good to be true, it almost always is. A useful rule: never give a password, address, or credit card to a request that came to you, especially over email or DM.

Model the behavior

The biggest factor in how your student treats the internet is how you treat it. Phones at the dinner table, late-night doomscrolling, oversharing on social — whatever you model becomes the family norm.

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